Unleashing Love

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More and more people are being prompted from within that love, compassionate care, and kindness are what the world needs at this time. 

Here’s a simple and profound practice you can do every day to help bring more love into your heart and into the world. As we increase the love in our system, this activates our memory to use these heart practices in the moment when stress presents itself, rather than drain our energy and later remember we could have prevented that.

Find a comfortable place and settle in.

1. Breathe love and go to stillness in the heart. Breathe more slowly and deeply. On the in-breath, imagine breathing in divine love. On the out-breath, radiate love and gratitude through all your cells and out to the planet.

Doing this elevates your spirit and helps to bring your heart, mind, emotions, and body into coherent alignment and stillness. This creates an energetic conduit for intuitive guidance and love to move through your day-to-day interactions. (It also helps to do this step through the day to release static build-up from stress.)

2. Now, envision more people throughout the world helping to lift the baseline vibration of love in the planetary field by taking personal action steps to be more compassionate, caring, kind, and cooperative with each other in their homes, workplaces, and social interactions. This is love in action.

3. Next, see more of humanity finally moving from separation and fear by replacing blame with compassionate care and reducing fear to intelligent concern to access their heart’s higher intuitive guidance and direction.

It’s obvious that collective fear is not going to disappear overnight, but even making any progress in reducing fear strengthens the seemingly elusive connection with our intuitive direction and guidance.

4. Let’s close by radiating our collective love and compassion to all people suffering from wars, trauma, famine, natural disasters, and other major stressors. See the radiation of our collective heart energy helping lift the planetary energetic field—and especially the hearts of those suffering hardships.

Choosing Kindness

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By Deborah Rozman, PhD

In a world of increasing separation, divisiveness, and stress, the need for kindness has never been greater. Kindness is a heart feeling that transcends distinctions of race, gender, education, religious or political preferences, and income. Kindness recognizes the inherent goodness in people and strives to bring it to light. Kindness is love in action—a powerful heart vibration that deepens our connections with each other.

Numerous research studies have shown many benefits from kind acts—for both the giver and the receiver of kindness. Studies reveal that kindness can be contagious, with those who receive kindness being more likely to be kinder and more generous as a result [1]. A World Kindness Day 2024 presentation reported that one act of kindness often led a recipient to extend five acts of kindness to others. Dr. Robin Banerjee, founder of the University of Sussex Center on Kindness Research, responded, “The point being made here is that an act of kindness can have a ripple effect, via the effects on those receiving the kindness and via the benefits to well-being for those giving the kindness, and even on those simply observing/noticing the kindness. Thus, it could even be a lot more than 5!!”

This is what movements such as “Pay It Forward” and “Random Acts of Kindness” envision to help people make kindness the norm during these transitional times. A December 2024 article in Optimist Daily titled “The large power of small acts of kindness: Science backs up how small acts of kindness can create global change” reported, “In a society fraught with political divisions, global crises, and seemingly insurmountable obstacles, it’s easy to believe that individual efforts are insignificant. However, research increasingly shows that tiny acts of compassion and connection can have far-reaching societal repercussions.”

Psychologists and researchers “have discovered that these tiny acts—whether a kind remark, a moment of understanding, or a gesture of solidarity—can promote empathy, dispel preconceptions, and even challenge large-scale social challenges such as discrimination.” [2] The article goes on to say, “The impact of these little acts extends beyond individual relationships, resulting in what psychologists refer to as an upward spiral of compassion—a positive feedback loop in which compassionate behaviors encourage social growth. Compassionate changes at any level—personal, interpersonal, or structural—can cause long-term alterations.” [3]

Mental and Physical Health Benefits of Kindness

Kindness studies over several decades demonstrated these benefits:

  • Less stress
  • Longer lifespan
  • Improved cardiovascular system
  • Increased energy
  • Improved immune system
  • Lower risk for depression
  • Stronger relationships
  • Better performance at work and school

Even witnessing acts of kindness on TV or social media has been shown to uplift mood, increase altruism, and promote connection to others [4]. In laboratory studies, viewers watching kindness media had increased levels of oxytocin (often called the ‘love hormone”), which promotes bonding and lowers blood pressure. Oxytocin also increases self-esteem and optimism while decreasing stress and emotional reactivity. Participants experienced a transcendent sense of being connected to others and became significantly more generous.

Simply watching kind and caring actions also induced prosocial behaviors that bolstered resilience. “Prosocial behavior” is a term sociologists use to describe acting kindly, cooperatively, and with compassion toward others. Another study found that an individual offering a single act of kindness each week reduced loneliness, social isolation, and social anxiety.

In other words, kindness is not just a nice thing to do. The economic cost of stress, burnout, loneliness, and incivility is enormous these days, costing billions of dollars annually. The need for simple acts of kindness is enormous.

So Why Isn’t There More Kindness in the World?  

We suggest one reason is because people have to choose kindness and choose to do something kind. The choice to be kind is an act of care from the heart, which activates the neurophysiological, hormonal, and social benefits.

Create, Don’t Wait

The saying “Create, Don’t Wait” means become the change you want to see. Don’t wait for something to change or wait for someone to be kind to you. Create being kind to others and enjoy the cascade of benefits that kindness brings. This is a key reason why practicing gratitude has become so popular in the past few years. Gratitude is a heart feeling that uplifts the spirit and reduces stress, along with providing similar health benefits as kindness. Many people suggest keeping a gratitude journal. Or before bed, think of 3 things you were grateful for that day. However, to experience the benefits, practicing gratitude has to be genuine. If gratitude becomes rote or mechanical, it can feel like a chore rather than something that engages the heart.

Empathy and Compassion

Empathy and compassion are heart feelings that receive the most attention in healthcare settings [5]. Empathy is resonating with another’s emotions. Compassion is deep care and understanding of what another may be experiencing. What’s most important is to increase the genuine heart feeling as we practice kindness, gratitude, empathy, or compassion. This makes the practice more authentic, which greatly increases its power and effectiveness, especially in highly stressful times.

While this article has focused primarily on choosing kindness, each heart quality, such as gratitude, compassion, care, patience, forgiveness, respect, etc., is a jewel in the heart that we can benefit from choosing to practice. They are all aspects of love. Starting with kindness often helps jump-start our practice of other heart qualities as we experience the intelligence of doing it.

Here’s an approach to practicing kindness that many people find helpful:

  1. Start by choosing 1 or 2 acts of kindness to give others each day. Make this genuine. It can be something simple, such as a smile, holding the door open for someone, a kind word, a kind question, offering a listening ear, etc. People often do these gestures, but they can become mechanical. Remember that to gain the maximum benefits from a kind deed, a genuine heart feeling needs to be present. That’s how the recipient feels the kindness.
  2. You can start by choosing 1 or 2 acts of kindness each day, but there’s nothing wrong with 3 or 4 or more. The number doesn’t make the difference. It’s our sincerity and genuineness that provide the greatest wholeness effect because it comes from who we truly are inside.
  3. Make up your own practices. Make it fun and not just a mental exercise. When you put your heart into it, ideas will come easily.

Practicing kindness, gratitude, compassion, connection, and other heart qualities can serve as the force that can support heart and love to go viral. The practice of heart qualities is what opens us to our heart’s intelligent guidance, which is so needed during these times. This will help us become the change we want to see and contribute to a ripple effect that can facilitate global transformation and well-being.  

[1]  https://www.psychiatry.org/news-room/apa-blogs/mental-health-benefits-simple-acts-of-kindness

[2] https://www.optimistdaily.com/2024/12/science-backs-up-how-small-acts-of-kindness-can-create-global-change/

[3] https://theconversation.com/an-upward-spiral-how-small-acts-of-kindness-and-connection-really-can-change-the-world-according-to-psychology-research-237426

[4] https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/psychology/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2020.591942/full

[5] https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10355430/

Empowering the Collective Heart

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Change Is Happening — in Our Hearts

The effectiveness of collective heart power is in its early stages — yet it’s on the rise due to the rapid increase of stress and anxiety throughout the planet and a desperate need for solutions that the mind without the heart can’t deliver. 

Profound societal changes will continue to take place as our world becomes increasingly interconnected and interdependent. The changes we are experiencing now are creating a time-release momentum for humanity to open our hearts to kindness, compassionate care, forgiveness, cooperation, and fresh starts. 

For humanity to achieve its potential, people need to learn to get along together. The mind without the heart hasn’t been able to pull this off. We’ve tried that through the ages, and it hasn’t worked. We are running out of ways to find true happiness and peace without making peace with each other. Our hearts can help bring about a new respect for our personal and cultural differences — and this is a job for love that can’t be substituted.

Collective Heart in Action

Love is the action word for humanity’s next awareness level of our heart’s intelligence for living peacefully and co-creating together on the planet. More people are awakening to this, realizing we won’t be able to sidestep the importance of our heart’s care and its effective guidance. As more of us radiate love and compassion to each other and into the planetary energetic field, it makes it easier for people to connect with their heart’s guidance day to day, which helps to draw what’s best for the whole (and us included). 

“Warmheartedness is the secret sauce in connection.” — Doc Childre

The need for love has been philosophized for eons — now is the time for love to hit the street running. 

Practice Compassion

Empowering the collective heart starts with us. One of the most effective ways to strengthen our heart power is to take a couple of weeks and first practice compassion while being conscious of whether you are really feeling it or just passing over it. This helps to amplify your heart energy. Each day, practice compassion for others’ hardships while watching the news and elsewhere. Also, practice having more sincere kindness and patience with others, even if it’s hard at times. It’s time to trade compassionate latitude for harsh judgments that lead to separation. 

Pause Before Acting

Another practice that is so simple we forget to do it — but saves so much energy, frustration, awkward situations, and re-dos (e.g., emails we’d like to take back) is learning to pause before acting. This is one of the best energy savers and stress reducers we can practice. Taking a pause for even a moment or two allows us a chance to transition from reaction to thoughtful, heart-centered response. When we rush, we often jam the natural flow of our heart’s intuitive guidance. Practice pausing a few times during the day to let your heart’s direction for a clearer assessment come through. With practice, your heart will start to alert you when a pause is needed or when you should have paused and didn’t (ouch!).

Of course, there are more heart qualities you can apply to strengthen your heart power. Many of us have practiced these types of exercises in times past, but they can be especially effective now because of the pressures from increased stress across the planet. Stress and a growing fear in the world can lower our heart energy, making us feel less connected in our interactions, create sharp drops in our self-security, and leave us stuck in the viral brain fog that so many people are experiencing in today’s times.

The above exercises, when done with genuine heartfelt intention, serve to reboot our heart feelings of care for each other, lift our operational frequency, and reconnect us with our intuition for making the highest best choices for ourselves and for the collective.

Care Focus Meditation: Empowering the Collective Heart

  1. Sit quietly and breathe love consciously. On the in-breath, imagine breathing in divine love throughout your being. On the out-breath, radiate the feeling of gratitude. Doing this elevates your spirit and helps to bring your heart, mind, emotions, and body into coherent alignment and stillness. This creates an energetic conduit for the love and guidance from your larger self to integrate more easily into your day-to-day interactions.
  1. Now, let’s connect with all people who are radiating heart energy into the planetary energetic field. See this helping to empower the collective heart. Envision more people connecting with their heart’s guidance to replace judgments with compassion, express warm-hearted care to those they interact with, and make more heart-based decisions. 
  1. Make a commitment to pause more during the day to radiate love or appreciation into the environment wherever you are: in meetings, on the phone, at the dinner table, watching the news, shopping, driving to work, walking in nature, etc. Know that each time you do this, it helps increase your capacity to love and to connect with your intuitive guidance for smarter moves through life’s challenges. 
  1. Now, let’s close by radiating our collective love and compassion to people and nations on the planet suffering from wars, trauma, natural disasters, and other major stressors as your heart guides you. 

Patience: A Heart Quality for Managing Uncertainty and Staying Resilient

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Most all of us have struggled with impatience from time to time, especially during these days of rapid change and uncertainty.

Patience supports our ability to manage our energies from a state of ease, especially when things don’t move to suit our mind’s pace. Constant change and uncertainty can amplify impatience, irritation, and frustration. These assumed small energy leaks often turn into blockbuster energy deficits over time if we don’t reset and transform them into patience, resilience, and flow.

Rushed, impatient energy diffuses our capacity for favorable outcomes. When we push energy, this cancels the experience of flow and creates hiccups in our intentions. It’s our mind that tends to rush energy; our heart chooses balance, rhythm, and flow. When cooperating together, they increase outcomes that facilitate any situation.  

Patience Creates Flow

Practicing patience and ease creates the energetic environment for flow to take place in our communications, choice selections, and actions. Traffic jams, slow computers, and communication difficulties won’t disappear because we practice patience. However, patience helps us attune our mental and emotional nature to operate at the highest level of energy economy as we sort our way through life’s interactions.

We all know that impatience is an invitation to frustration, shallow discernment, and faulty choices. When our hearts truly commit to becoming patient, then our minds will progressively surrender to this most beneficial change in our energy management. The reduced stress we will experience quickly turns into resilience, which is especially needed through these restrictive changes most of us are experiencing.

Patience Through Inner Ease

We often make high-spirited commitments for behavior changes and then our intentions fade because the lack of patience drains the energy from our commitment.

Our intuition constantly prompts us to be more patient, but most of us know that initiative can slip away all too easily. Once we realize how many mental and emotional setbacks and physical energy drains are caused from the lack of patience, we will probably commit like never before to install patience as one of our most important assets for navigating these times of high speed, unpredictable changes.

Exercise: Replacing Impatience with Patience

  1. Acknowledge your feelings as soon as you sense impatience, irritation, or frustration.
  2. Pause what you’re doing. From your genuine heart, imagine breathing in the feeling of inner ease. Imagine with each breath that you are drawing in feelings of patience and calm.
  3. Once you shift to an attitude of patience and regain your emotional poise, breathe this feeling for a while longer to help anchor it in. Continue this exercise for a few days and your intuition will start to automatically cue you up when impatience persists.

As we commit to replacing impatience with patience, inner ease, and flow, our life’s interactions will play out with more balance, resilience, and effective choice. This can prevent much of the energy drain, fatigue, and do-overs we experience along with bringing more peace and health benefits. Results come quickly if you put your heart into it.

Patience, resilience, and caring more for each other are especially essential now for the highest and best outcomes for ourselves and collective humanity.

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Help Love Go Viral

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By Doc Childre

It’s in the heart that people access the qualities of love, such as compassion, care, kindness, forgiveness, appreciation, etc., that lift us above separation, judgments, and blame. Through intentionally demonstrating these heart qualities in our lives, we connect with our heart’s natural intelligence and guidance for a unique opportunity to create a future together in harmony.

As collective consciousness increases, this will eventually reveal that love is an advanced mode of intelligent living. What I mean by love is simply more care, kindness, and cooperation in our interactions, along with less judgment, more compassion, and forgiveness. I feel it would be safe to say that one of love’s principal intentions is to help people get along with each other and heal separation, which unfolds the secret of thriving and experiencing less fear and more joy. 

The healing of separation is essential for a shift into the next level of intelligence for humanity — and many people are feeling that life’s events are shaking us awake to this requirement. These times are lit with positive opportunity, regardless of how they can appear throughout the world. Humanity is transitioning into a state of consciousness that will unleash the creative power of togetherness and the understanding that it’s our heart vibration that qualifies the difference between separation and feeling connected. 

Increased heart-connected interactions with each other will progressively raise the vibration of collective consciousness. As we realize we are all energetically connected, increasing our love and care for each other creates easier access to our true self’s assistance. This will set the stage for realizing that inclusive, unconditional love and compassion is the next advanced mode of intelligent living.

What We Can Do

My intention in my writings is to give a picture of how love includes practical and effective ways to heal separation and bitterness between people, which is driving the steady increase in intractable stress that humanity is experiencing. 

  • Learning to establish coherence between our mind, heart, and emotions expands our love, kindness, and compassionate care. 
  • Increasing the love flowing through our system is one of the best-kept secrets for connecting with our heart’s intuitive directions. 
  • Expanding our love and care for others helps activate and anchor our heart’s intuitive connection as a street-wise way of life, not just as a passing trend. 

Broadcasting Love

There are many individual and collective benefits from the practice of intentionally broadcasting or radiating love. Radiating love and compassion automatically brings more patience and deeper listening into our interactions. After we practice radiating love or compassion for a while, there’s an automatic tendency to precede interactions from a more loving spirit, resulting in less stress and more harmony in our relationships. Sending love in the form of compassionate care and respect also helps to soften the energetic field around us, making it easier for others to feel ease and a deeper resonant connection in their heart.

Exercise for Increasing Your Love Radiation

  • Sit quietly for a few minutes and breathe consciously. On the in-breath, imagine breathing in divine love throughout your being. On the out-breath, radiate the feeling of gratitude. 

Doing this lifts the vibration of your spirit and helps to bring heart, mind, emotions, and body into coherent alignment and stillness. This creates an energetic conduit for the love and guidance from your true self to integrate more easily into your day-to-day interactions. 

If you decide to try this, be patient while getting the feel of the process. Without patience, your mind will tend to expect too much too quickly, and you will likely give up disappointed.

Collective Heart in Action

The effectiveness of collective heart power is in its early stages — yet it’s on the rise due to the rapid increase of stress and a desperate need for solutions that the mind without the heart can’t deliver. The objective is for humanity to go for sustaining compassion and cooperation without needing stress to remind us. 

Profound societal changes will continue to take place as our world becomes increasingly interconnected and interdependent. For this to achieve its potential, we need to all learn to get along. The mind without the heart hasn’t been able to pull this off. The good news is the dynamic shift the collective is experiencing now is creating a time-release momentum for awakening humanity to collectively open our hearts and step our love down into kindness, compassionate care, forgiveness, cooperation, and fresh starts. 

Exercises to Expand Our Capacity to Love

  • Make a commitment to consciously broadcast or radiate love for a minute or two in between and during activities during the day or whenever you think of it. Realize that you are also radiating love when you’re feeling appreciation and kindness, resonance with nature, warm-hearted care for family, friends, pets, etc.
  • Practice breathing love into the environment wherever you are: shopping, on the phone, at the dinner table, watching the news, in meetings, while driving or walking to work. As you do this, know that it’s helping to increase your capacity for finding solutions to life’s challenges. 
  • Sit awhile in relaxed stillness and imagine breathing love into all your cells. This enhances your immune, hormonal, and nervous systems, which can help with self-healing. Remember that it’s already proven that love energy can effect positive changes in our biology. 
  • Practice radiating love into future meetings or interactions you are planning. This sets the tone for deeper listening from your heart and helps you maintain or recoup emotional poise if needed. 

Doing these exercises for a week or longer strengthens your inner stability while helping to prevent stressors that block clear thinking and higher choices. It takes a little repeated practice to remember to do them, but it’s way worth the time spent to anchor any of these practices into memory. Set up phone or note reminders. Some days, you won’t feel the heart as much. Heart feelings modulate at times, but that’s okay. It’s your sincere heart intention that increases your effectiveness so that radiating love and care becomes more automatic. 

These exercises are intended to inspire your own creative ways to expand your love and experience the transformational benefits that come with it. 

In Summary

Love is an action word for achieving our next awareness level of collective intelligence. We won’t be able to sidestep genuine love, care, and compassionate interaction. We’ve tried that through the ages, and it hasn’t worked. When we choose to be more caring, kind, and cooperative with each other for the good of the whole, we will create self-sustaining socioeconomic ecosystems that provide the opportunity for all to prosper.

The need for love has been philosophized for eons — now is the time for us to bring it to the street and practice more love and kindness in our interactions to reap the practical and proven benefits. We are running out of ways of trying to find happiness and peace without opening our hearts to getting along with each other. We need to find a new respect for our personal and cultural differences. This is a job for love that can’t be substituted.

We have a limitless supply of love within our heart, waiting to hit the street running. As more of us establish a coherent alignment between our mind and heart, along with expanding our love, kindness, and compassion, we will build the new baseline for creating the world as we want it to be. Compassion is transformational love and care manifesting in the most ripened state of effectiveness for the whole. 

It’s time to give love a chance — then peace will join us at the table for celebration.

Take a Pause

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Take a Pause

An Often Forgotten Yet Essential Life Skill

In our fast-paced world, the art of pausing seems to have become a forgotten skill. Yet, this simple act holds immense power to improve our lives, relationships, and decision-making processes. Embracing the act of taking a pause can benefit us in numerous ways.

When Push Comes to Pause

The physiological shift that occurs when taking a pause allows us to move from a reactive momentum state to a more thoughtful, responsive one. By taking time to pause, we create space between stimulus and response, giving ourselves the opportunity to choose our actions more deliberately from a place of heart and mind intelligence. 

Incorporating pause with Heart-Focused Breathing™ enables us to slow down our breathing rate, which stimulates the parasympathetic nervous system. This is the part of our nervous system that calms the body and mind. In fact, the skill of taking a pause is so important that it is applied in the medical field. It’s called a medical pause and is used to help prevent medical errors and evaluate the current course of action.  

Here are a few good reasons to cultivate this vital life skill in your day-to-day life.  

Benefits of Pausing

Enhanced Decision-Making

Pausing before making a decision, big or small, can significantly improve what we choose and do. It allows our minds to process information more thoughtfully, leading to more balanced and well-considered choices. We avoid impulsive decisions we might later regret — whether that’s firing off a curt email or text or saying something we wish we could take back. 

Improved Communication

During conversations, pausing serves dual purposes. It gives the listener time to process what’s been said, making your communication clearer, more effective, and memorable. Additionally, it helps prevent miscommunication by allowing you to choose your words more carefully, reducing the chance of saying something that could be misinterpreted or cause unintended hurt. 

Stress Reduction

Practicing pause throughout the day can significantly reduce stress levels. The HeartMath Institute’s research has shown that brief periods of Heart-Focused Breathing help to synchronize the heart, mind, and nervous system, bringing these systems into a state called heart coherence. Heart coherence leads to better emotional self-regulation and overall well-being.

Increased Productivity

Contrary to what we might think, taking regular breaks can actually boost productivity. Tony Schwartz, CEO of The Energy Project, notes that humans perform best when alternating between periods of intense focus and intermittent renewal. Taking time out to pause allows us to recharge and return to tasks with renewed energy and clarity.

Practical Ways to Incorporate Pause

Take a heart pause
When faced with challenging emails or messages, remind yourself to take a heart pause for 60–90 seconds. Use this time to focus on your heart, breathe through the heart area, and connect with your heart feelings. Reflect on your response. Does this interaction need more care or compassion? In conversations, consider reflecting back to the person the concerns they expressed to show deep listening and empathy. Taking this pause allows you to align your response with your core values, fostering care in the situation. By taking a moment, you create an opportunity for a more thoughtful and compassionate exchange.

Pause in transition times
Instead of rushing from one meeting to another, schedule yourself a few minutes between meetings or phone calls to allow for a pause in the transition. Use the Quick Coherence® technique. Have the intention to reset and connect with your heart, and choose the attitude and energetic quality you want to bring into your next interaction.

Increase your presence with a pause
Set aside short timeout periods throughout your day (ideally 3–5 minutes) specifically for pausing in the heart to consider your next steps. Many of us feel guilty about taking breaks or worry that pausing will slow us down when, in fact, it can be a huge energy and time-saver.

 

Here are a few examples of how a pause can save us time. Given space, the mind can recall important tasks you intend on doing. For example, “I should leave early since I need to stop for gas before heading home.” Taking a pause lets you hear your intuition, such as, “Perhaps I should call and confirm that appointment for tomorrow.” By slowing down, we can recall important communications we might otherwise forget, for instance, a verbal promise to stop to get your son supplies for a science project. In each of these examples, because your mind was given a brief rest and the space to recall important information, you saved time and energy because you avoided needing to double back to correct what was overlooked.

Reframing the Value of Pause

The bottom line is that your brain craves these moments of respite — it needs time to regroup and recharge. When we cultivate the habit of pausing, the benefit extends beyond our personal lives and is helpful to others. By reframing pause as an essential life tool, we can start to see more clearly the intelligence of this practice. 

Incorporating the power of pause into our lives doesn’t require drastic changes. By starting with small, intentional breaks and gradually expanding our practice of pause, we can soon reap significant benefits in our personal and professional lives. As we become more adept at pausing, we’ll find ourselves making wiser decisions, communicating more effectively, and experiencing greater overall well-being. 

Bonus

Listen to the guided version of the Heart-Focused Breathing™ and Quick Coherence™ techniques in the HeartMath Experience or the HeartMath app. In the HeartMath app “Learning” section, go to “Guided Techniques.”

Today’s Stress Is Different

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Today’s Stress Is Different – What Can Help?

By Deborah Rozman, Ph.D., and Jorina Elbers, M.D.

Cultivating a new ability to handle things, take charge of our reactions, increase self-empowerment, and release accumulated stress as we go

National Geographic Magazine’s June 2024 lead article* reports that the perceived level of psychological stress has risen dramatically across the globe due to a combination of factors: the COVID-19 pandemic, climate change, environmental disasters, economic uncertainty, the escalation of political instability across nations, constant news about gun violence, terrorism, wars, and other threats. The article goes on to say, “The consequences of this broadscale increase in stress are only beginning to be appreciated, but the evidence suggests that we are facing a second pandemic of mood and anxiety disorders, including major depression, anxiety, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).”  

We are facing a second pandemic of mood and anxiety disorders, including major depression, anxiety, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).

Secondary Trauma

Temporary stress ends once a perceived threat passes. But what’s happening today is different — the perceived threat isn’t passing.

Secondary traumatization (here broadly includes vicarious trauma and compassion fatigue) occurs when a person is exposed to traumatic events through another person’s firsthand narrative. This used to only apply to first responders, mental health workers, or family members of trauma survivors.

With the increased exposure to traumatic events through social media, graphic news clips, and personal stories, many more people are being deeply impacted by trauma inputs simply by opening their smartphones.

Like the frog who doesn’t jump out of slowly boiling water, we are adapting to this ongoing stress and trauma and perceiving it as normal without recognizing its negative impact.

These days, almost everyone is experiencing trauma input from the news or their social media feed, in addition to ongoing stress from work, family, and relationships. This cumulative exposure can lead to chronic symptoms of anxiety, fatigue, and depression, along with changes in beliefs and attitudes about the world, such as increased cynicism or a loss of hope. Cumulative stress or trauma may also be fueling the rise in political extremism and conspiracy theories we’re seeing today.

Mental and Physical Health Consequences

Many people think of stress as a worn-out topic because it is so widespread, and the standard stress solutions don’t seem to be working. When people feel they have less control over their lives or their future, the stress can take a toll on their mental, emotional, and physical health. Financial strain is a chronic stressor for many; loneliness is another. Some types of stress may seem so “normal” that we don’t recognize them as stress until they’re harming our health, such as a toxic work environment or conflicts at home. 

In a recent survey conducted by the American Psychological Association (2023), a third of respondents reported they “feel completely stressed out no matter what they do to manage their stress.” Over time, stress accumulation causes nervous system dysregulation, which leads to mental and physical health problems and disease. In addition to increasing the risk of high blood pressure and heart disease, stress has been shown to play a role in obesity and diabetes. Stress accumulation also disrupts our immune function, leaving us more vulnerable to infection, cancer, and autoimmune disease. 

What Can We Do?

It’s time for us all to wake up to the seriousness of what’s going on and find effective ways to start helping ourselves. This is why HeartMath has been researching stress and designing self-empowerment techniques for the past 30 years. The HeartMath® system provides accessible tools for people to build their inner management skills so they can take charge and feel more confident in their ability to address what’s going on.

How HeartMath Can Help

HeartMath’s science-based heart rhythm coherence techniques and technologies have been shown to help people regulate their nervous system and emotions to transform accumulated stress and trauma.

The HeartMath system empowers people to bring their heart, brain, and nervous system into coherent alignment and harmony.

HeartMath coherence practices help in many ways and provide many benefits, including the following:

  1. Coherence practice helps people make more effective choices and experience greater ease, clarity, and purpose. 
  2. Coherence practice helps people gain more benefits from relaxation and meditation exercises.
  3. Daily practice improves sleep, emotional well-being, focus, and confidence.
  4. One of the main benefits of heart rhythm coherence practice is it helps to re-open the heart and have more compassionate latitude for yourself and for what others may be going through. 
  5. Heart coherence also helps you feel more connected to people you may have felt disconnected or separate from. 

Many people are tired of feeling separate from people they really love in their lives (family, friends) over issues like politics or religion. Others want more sanity through today’s constant chaos, where they can feel like they’re living rather than just surviving. Some are feeling radical changes happening within their own emotions, so they repress them and become numb, cutting off their own self-awareness and diminishing what care they have left. Feelings of hopelessness can translate into a perception that “this is the way the world is now.” When belief in the collective drops, so does the motivation to contribute to the greater good. This is how we become a society of “each person for themselves.”

Increasing our care and compassion for others helps us to reconnect with our hearts and feelings of hope. With hope comes greater emotional stability and resilience to “weather the storms.” The HeartMath system was created to help people during times of accelerated stress — to connect to the power within themselves to make things better. That power lies within their own heart. HeartMath techniques and coherence technology are designed to help lift people above their stress or overwhelm, which often provides them with a totally new perspective.  

No matter what system anyone uses for stress management, adding heart to their practice raises its effectiveness. More and more people realize that now is not only a time for more heart, but they recognize the urgent need — a need for hope, a need for reconnection, and a need for love to go viral. It’s time that we create an infusion of kindness and compassionate care in our interactions, which will help to reduce stress and bring about greater emotional strength within ourselves, our families, our communities, and our society. In this way, we will more effectively navigate the stressors of the day or the week — and be in a better place to respond to any of the larger challenges that may come our way.

To help yourself and those you care about:

  • Enhance your self-regulation skills and support your clients’ healing journeys with HeartMath’s The Resilient Heart™ course. Learn more.
  • Discover the transformative power of heart coherence and build emotional resilience with the new HeartMath app.

*The New Science of Stress – The defense mechanism affects our health at every age—and researchers are striving to understand precisely how.
National Geographic Magazine, June 2024

Feeling Out of Sorts Today? 

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It Might Be a Modulation Day (Not a Bad Day!)

Did you ever have a day when you woke up feeling out of sorts, grumpy, or maybe a bit blah and low on energy? This is what HeartMath calls “modulation days.” Everyone has them. This isn’t necessarily a cause for concern or a sign that something is “wrong.” We don’t have to feel bad about these natural ebbs and flows in our emotional rhythms.

All of nature has rhythms, just as ocean tides have rhythms of highs and lows, so can our emotions have rhythms. Our responses and behaviors can change depending on whether we’re in a higher or lower emotional vibration. Sometimes these modulations create shifts in our moods or perceptions that can cause us to feel like we are at times two different people in the same body. 

During a modulation day, many people find it more difficult to connect with warm-hearted feelings of care or gratitude. There are simple ways to shorten the duration of modulation days with a proactive approach. One powerful tool is reminding yourself to have acceptance. Here’s how that inner dialogue might go: 

Ugh, okay, today I feel foggy, like my rhythm is off. I definitely don’t have my usual spark. Since I’m feeling a bit edgy, I need to be extra gentle with myself and everyone else, too. I’ll take some pauses during the day and do heart-focused breathing to help things feel less edgy.

It’s important to remember we have a choice in how we handle a modulation day. We can view modulation time as an opportunity to exercise patience, self-care, and self-compassion. Even if our feelings are at low ebb or we’re kind of grumpy, making time to connect with a heart attitude can provide a smoother ride through the day. 

As we ride the modulation wave with acceptance and care for ourselves, before long, the tide will turn, and we’ll find ourselves on the uplift once more.

Actionable Tips for a Modulation Day:

Be Kind to Yourself—Practice Self-Compassion:

Modulation days aren’t a reflection of your worth. Instead of worrying or being hard on yourself, offer yourself kindness and understanding. Remind yourself, it’s okay to have modulation days. They are natural fluctuations in your rhythms. 

Take a Moment to Connect with Your Heart:

Throughout your day, take a few moments to do heart-focused breathing. Simply breathe through the heart area, a little deeper and slower than usual. Shift your focus to heart attitudes of kindness, appreciation, or calm as you breathe. Even brief moments of connection with your heart can bring a sense of inner ease. Don’t expect instantaneous results—be patient with yourself.

Enjoy the Beauty of Nature—Prioritize Self-Care:

Modulation days are a good time to nourish your connection with nature. Make time to go for a walk, sit outside for lunch. Appreciating the little things can add a gentle gratitude lift to your day. Make a point to notice the vibrancy or fragrance of a flower, or the beauty of cloud formations, or the sound of birds in the distance. Think of other ways to care for yourself, perhaps listening to soothing music, meditating, writing in a journal, or making a favorite meal. 

Practice: The Inner Ease™ Technique

Using this heart-focused technique is an effective practice on modulation days when you are a little more prone to impatience or frustration. These steps can help add a lift to our vibration, helping us to generate feelings of inner peace and “flow” in our day.

Inner-Ease™ Technique

  1. If you are stressed, acknowledge your feelings as soon as you sense that you are out of sync or engaged in common stressors—feelings such as frustration, impatience, anxiety, overload, anger, being judgmental, mentally gridlocked, etc.
  2. Take a short time out and do heart-focused breathing: breathe a little slower than usual; pretend you are breathing through your heart or chest area. (This is proven to help create coherent wave patterns in your heart rhythm—which helps restore balance and calm in your mental and emotional nature while activating the affirming power of your heart.)
  3. During the heart-focused breathing, imagine with each breath that you are drawing in a feeling of inner ease and infusing your mental and emotional nature with balance and self-care from your heart.
  4. When the stressful feelings have calmed, affirm with a heartfelt commitment that you want to anchor and maintain the state of ease as you re-engage in your projects, challenges, or daily interactions.

Bonus

Listen to the guided version of this technique in the HeartMath app, along with several other helpful techniques. In the HeartMath app “Learning” section, go to “Guided Techniques.” 

Additional Bonus

Hear more about how to raise your vibration in the audiobook Heart Intelligence, also included in the HeartMath app. Listen to chapter five. Go to the “Learning” section and tap “Audiobooks.”

 

HeartMath Institute: Empowering Students with Tools for Emotional Well-Being

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HeartMath Institute’s innovative school programs are gaining traction across the US.  

The past few years haven’t been easy for kids. Studies show that roughly 1 in 6 children aged 5-16 experience some form of a mental health issue. 

Between the social isolation of COVID-19, constant changes to schooling, and a world full of uncertainty, it’s no wonder many kids are struggling with anxiety and feeling down. War, climate warming, and political turmoil can add another layer of worry and fear for them.

Social media can facilitate connection but can also fuel feelings of inadequacy with all the comparisons and potential for cyberbullying.  

Building Confidence and Self-Regulation

HeartMath Institute’s school programs, based on over 30 years of research, are showing promise in addressing these rising student mental health concerns.   

The programs focus on building “heart-brain coherence,” a state where the heart and brain are in sync, resulting in feeling calmer, more focused, and better able to handle challenges. 

These skills translate into tangible benefits for students, including:

  • Improved Mental Health: Learning to manage their emotions brings children closer to improving their mental well-being.
  • Enhanced Academic Performance: Studies show that emotional regulation skills can lead to better focus and concentration in the classroom.
  • Stronger Social Connections: Understanding and regulating emotions fosters better communication and builds healthier relationships with peers.

Cool Tech

Kids love the technology because it lets them actually see their emotions. As they begin to feel calmer and more focused, the app images calm down, too.   

“I previously did not have control of how I felt, but now I do. That unlocked a whole new world for me, where even in stressful situations, I can still feel good.”

— SB, high school student

Real-World Examples:

  • Florida: Teachers are utilizing the emWave® Pro technology to help students process and manage trauma.
  • Portland, Oregon: A special education teacher is equipping 200 preschool teachers with HeartMath® techniques for fostering emotional well-being in young children.
  • Houston, Texas: A CDC grant program is incorporating HeartMath’s self-regulation techniques to support students struggling with agitation and focus issues.
  • Canada: In a four-week study, students reported:
    • Enhanced emotional stability
    • Increased self-esteem
    • Improved interpersonal relationships
  • HeartMath’s programs, HeartSmarts Adventure®, WiseHeart®, and Smart Brain Wise Heart™, have received grants in recognition of their effectiveness in addressing student mental health challenges. 

How You Can Help:

There are several ways you can contribute to supporting children’s mental health:

  • Watch and Share: If you have or care about kids, check this 5-minute video out and share it. It can help kids navigate their lives, schools, and social worlds. This is an indispensable skill set that all children should have access to — easy-to-learn, science-based, proven benefits. 
  • Advocate for School Programs: In a world that is unsure of what makes sense, learning how to connect to the heart, turn around a negative situation, and love themselves and the people around them is essential. If this inspires you, help us connect the dots by getting these tools to all children and schools.

By working together, we can equip children with the tools they need to thrive emotionally and navigate the complexities of life with confidence.

You can learn more about HeartMath Institute’s activities in education in their quarterly newsletter, Heart Smarts, here.

Care Focus: Putting Love into Action

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Putting Love into Action

We are all deeply affected by the suffering of people from the wars in Gaza and Ukraine and the armed conflicts in Darfur, Haiti, and elsewhere. Our deepest compassion goes out to all who are enduring violence, displacement, famine, and fear.

We all can make a difference by energizing the global heart awakening. This can help shift the trajectory of separation and hate with the transformative power of love and kindness. The increasing political and societal polarization creating separation, even among friends and family members, is calling for us to better understand each other’s needs and concerns. Deeper listening with care can help with this.

Increasingly, more people are realizing that the warmth of kindness and care is needed for people to get along with each other. Increasing our care and genuine connection raises our vibration to access higher choices and actions that benefit the whole. This helps raise the planetary energetic field, which helps lift human consciousness to make it easier for more of us to connect with the heart’s intelligent guidance.

Practicing heart qualities, such as compassionate care, kindness, appreciation, deep listening, and forgiveness, cultivates an inclusive love that respects our cultural and personal differences. If even a small percentage of us commit to practicing compassionate understanding, the heart can go viral across the planet. As we write, more and more people are becoming aware that the planet is in a serious drought from the lack of heart energy. It’s time for love to hit the street. That is the awakening.

The Global Field Environment

GCI is demonstrating — through a Worldwide Network of Magnetometers, Random Number Generators, and Tree Monitoring Sensors — that we are all far more interconnected with each other, nature, and Earth’s magnetic fields than previously understood. Earth’s magnetic fields interconnect and distribute information to all living beings and organisms on our planet — that’s why it’s important for each of us to feed the energetic field environment with love and compassion. This will help offset the stress waves, create a viral momentum of heart awareness, and lift the consciousness of humanity.

The vibrations of our moods, attitudes, thoughts, and feelings rise and fall throughout the day, based on our actions and reactions — especially in today’s dynamic emotional climate. The “vibes” we emanate to others and into the environment vary based on our mind, emotions, and disposition. An easy way to maintain a higher vibration is to practice going back to the heart when we get triggered or feel stressed and then interweave qualities of love, care, kindness, appreciation, or compassion into our interactions. That’s putting love into action. Anyone who experiences these heart qualities recognizes their transformative value.

Most of us know that love is the missing piece, but still, to break the inertia, we have to step into it to move forward. After a week of practice, it gets easier, especially as we start to experience the benefits. During these times, remember to have compassion for yourself, as most of us are doing the best we can based on our situations while the planet is going through heightened intensities.

Care Focus: Putting Love into Action

  1. Center in the heart and breathe love and appreciation. This warms our heart and increases coherence in our heart’s intention.
  2. Breathe easily and imagine with each breath that your mind, emotions, and body are becoming still inside. This helps with focus.
  3. Next, visualize more of humanity connecting with their heart’s love, kindness, compassion, and respect in their interactions to reduce separation and draw in new solutions that serve the greater whole.
    As the collective heart awakens, this can eventually transform the civil unrest from separation and clear the way for people to get along with each other — a first step toward creating a better and more harmonious world.
  4. Now, let’s radiate our inclusive love and compassion to all who are suffering throughout the planet from wars, famine, and many other hardships. Let’s remember to send focused care and compassion to help ease the suffering of people in Gaza, Israel, Ukraine, Darfur, and Haiti.

You can continue to do the Care Focus, if convenient, after the full moon period, as this will help raise the vibratory rate of the personal and collective field environment.

Thank you for your participation in this Care Focus.

GCI Steering Committee and Staff