The Heart of Human Performance

Dave Asprey and Dr. Rollin McCraty on Coherence, Longevity, and Real Time HRV Training

HeartMath’s research director, Rollin McCraty, PhD, was recently Dave Asprey’s guest on The Human Upgrade podcast.

Before there were Oura Rings and WHOOP bands, HeartMath was already training HRV—not just tracking it.

—Dave Asprey

For more than three decades, the HeartMath® Institute has pioneered the science of heart-brain communication and the technology that trains it. In a recent conversation on The Human Upgrade podcast, biohacking pioneer Dave Asprey sat down with Dr. Rollin McCraty—HeartMath’s Director of Research—to explore how training heart coherence can transform health, performance, and even collective consciousness.

What Is Heart Rate Variability—Actually?

At its simplest, heart rate variability (HRV) is the change in time between each heartbeat. A healthy heart doesn’t beat like a metronome—it moves in rhythm, constantly adapting to internal and external demands.

“Rhythm is everything. When the heart’s rhythm becomes coherent, the entire system synchronizes.”

—R. McCraty

Dr. McCraty explains that HRV is more than a fitness metric—it’s the window into your nervous system’s flexibility and your body’s ability to self-regulate.

Tracking vs. Training HRV

Most wearables track HRV. HeartMath’s tools train it.

“Tracking HRV is like stepping on a scale. Training it is like the workout for your nervous system.”

—R. McCraty

Using the Inner Balance™ Coherence Plus sensor and HeartMath app, you receive real time biofeedback that teaches your body what coherence feels like—an optimal physiological state where the heart, brain, and nervous system work in harmony.

Asprey describes it as learning to “make the light turn green.”  Within seconds, you see and feel your internal system shift from stress to balance.

Your Heart: The Master Conductor

Dr. McCraty describes the heart as the conductor of an orchestra:

 “When the conductor gets frantic and frustrated, the music gets discordant and chaotic. When the heart is coherent, everything plays in harmony.”

Heart coherence isn’t about slowing your heartbeat; it’s about aligning your internal rhythms. In a coherent state, your hormones, immune system, and brain function coordinate efficiently—creating calm focus, resilience, and energy conservation.

Five Minutes a Day Can Rewire Your System

You don’t need hours of meditation to experience results. Dr. McCraty’s research shows that five minutes of coherence training a day can begin to rewire your nervous system.

After six weeks of daily practice, most people establish a measurable new baseline: steadier HRV, fewer stress triggers, and faster recovery from daily challenges.

“Five minutes a day… builds a new baseline in our brain and nervous system.”

—R. McCraty

The Biohacker’s Edge

From Navy SEALs and Olympic athletes to longevity researchers and entrepreneurs, high performers use HeartMath to sharpen focus, accelerate recovery, and sustain energy.

Used by over 40 MLB teams, professional athletes, healthcare providers, and the U.S. military, HeartMath’s tools are trusted worldwide for building resilience and optimizing human performance.

Coherence training complements every other optimization strategy—nutrition, sleep, light, breathwork—by training the control system behind them all: your nervous system.

Beyond the Individual: Coherence Is Contagious

HeartMath’s research has shown that when groups practice coherence together, their heart rhythms begin to synchronize—and even align with Earth’s natural electromagnetic rhythms.

Dave and Dr. McCraty agree that when people are more coherent, they become both balanced individually and more connected collectively. 

It’s a powerful reminder that human performance and planetary harmony may share the same frequency.

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Biohacking the Heart–Brain Connection: Dave Asprey with Rollin McCraty, PhD

At a recent conference, biohacker and entrepreneur Dave Asprey hosted a Fireside Chat with Dr. Rollin McCraty, Director of Research at the HeartMath Institute. Their conversation ranged from personal stories of discovery to frontier science on the nature of consciousness, coherence, and humanity’s role in shaping reality. What emerged was both practical and profound: the human heart may be central not only to personal well-being, but also to the future of collective human evolution.  

How Dave First Encountered HeartMath

Dave opened the conversation by recalling his first encounter with Dr. McCraty nearly two decades ago, when he was running a longevity nonprofit. HeartMath’s tools helped him recognize his own stress patterns—stuck in “fight or flight”—and gave him a way to shift toward balance. Dave credits HeartMath as a foundation that allowed him to learn how to meditate and self-regulate, transforming his ability to manage his nervous system.

The Global Consciousness Project

One of the more surprising areas of HeartMath’s work is its involvement in the Global Consciousness Project. Originally launched at Princeton University, this initiative uses networks of random number generators (RNGs) placed worldwide to detect subtle effects of collective human emotion on physical systems.

McCraty explained: when large numbers of people experience the same emotion—particularly love, compassion, or shock—RNGs thousands of miles apart begin to show patterns of synchronization. This suggests that human consciousness is not isolated but participates in a shared global field.

HeartMath’s new Global Consciousness Project 2.0 continues this exploration, measuring how local group meditations (such as those led by Dr. Joe Dispenza) may ripple outward into the global field.

Alan Turing and the Consciousness Test

The conversation turned unexpectedly toward artificial intelligence. Asprey asked whether consciousness could influence AI, sharing his own experiments with ChatGPT about using thought to affect randomness. This led McCraty to recall a remarkable historical connection.

In the 1930s, Alan Turing, widely regarded as the father of modern computing, proposed that one way to test whether a machine possessed true consciousness would be to see if it could influence the output of a random number generator.

The very same devices HeartMath uses to study human consciousness—the RNGs—were identified by Turing almost a century ago as a benchmark for detecting awareness in machines. In McCraty’s view, while computers may simulate intelligence, they lack the defining essence of human beings: a soul.

This historical echo added weight to the idea that the frontier of consciousness research is not only mystical or speculative—it is anchored in some of the deepest questions of science and technology.

Heart Coherence and Human Physiology

Shifting back to human potential, McCraty highlighted HeartMath’s early research. Thirty years ago, most studies focused on stress and negative emotions. Almost no scientific work has examined what happens when we feel appreciation, gratitude, or kindness. HeartMath pioneered this territory, showing that such uplifting states generate a distinct, ordered pattern in heart rhythms known as coherence.

Unlike traditional measures of heart rate variability (HRV), which simply assess the range of variability, coherence reflects a harmonious, efficient state of the nervous system. Incoherence—seen during frustration or impatience—appears chaotic on a heart rhythm chart. In contrast, coherence produces smooth, wave-like patterns that correspond to synchronized activity across the brain and body.

McCraty stressed that coherence is not just about calmness but represents an optimal state for performance, health, and awareness. Practicing coherence regularly can increase resilience, support longevity, and expand consciousness.

The Heart’s Electromagnetic Field

Another striking point: the heart generates the body’s most powerful electromagnetic field. This field extends several feet beyond the body and carries information about our emotional state. With sensitive instruments, researchers can detect these fields and observe how they influence others nearby.

McCraty explained that when groups of people intentionally align in coherence, their fields resonate together. Even more fascinating, the heart’s frequency of coherence (around 0.1 Hz) matches natural resonances in Earth’s magnetic field. In other words, our hearts are literally tuned to the planet.

This resonance creates the possibility of “feeding the field.” McCraty encouraged everyone to ask: What am I feeding the field today? Fear, anger, and hostility contribute to collective incoherence. Compassion and care amplify coherence in ways that ripple across the globe.

Practical Implications: Personal and Global

For individuals, practicing coherence means having a tool to reset in the moment—especially under stress. Using HeartMath’s technology or simply learning techniques like Heart-Focused Breathing™, people can actively shift their physiology into a balanced, resilient state.

For groups, collective coherence offers more: it’s measurable, it uplifts surrounding communities, and it may contribute to the evolution of human consciousness. As McCraty summarized, “The more people who can practice getting into coherence, the more we’re able to pulse the planet to create a coherent wave in the global field.”

Why This Matters Now

Asprey closed by noting how profound this research is in today’s world of uncertainty and division. If human hearts really are broadcasting into a shared field, then cultivating coherence may be one of the most powerful actions individuals can take—not only for personal health but for humanity at large.

McCraty agreed, emphasizing the urgency: with so much fear and anger dominating collective emotion, coherence practices offer a way to shift the global baseline. Every moment of compassion and gratitude adds to a measurable wave of uplift.

Takeaway

The fireside chat revealed more than a discussion of stress management. It highlighted a paradigm shift: that the human heart is not only a biological pump but also a powerful instrument of connection, resonance, and consciousness. By choosing coherence—moment by moment—we can change ourselves, influence those around us, and perhaps even shape the future of our planet.

Alan Turing foresaw that the ability to affect randomness might be a marker of consciousness. Today, HeartMath is showing that human beings, through the power of the heart, already have that ability—and that it may be the key to a more coherent, compassionate world.

Can Your Brain Get Younger?

New USC Study Shows Heart Coherence Training May Reverse Key Signs of Brain Aging

Heart–Brain Connection and Cognitive Health

Aging is often accompanied by a natural decline in the brain’s ability to regulate blood flow, which is associated with cognitive decline, but new research shows that targeted Heart Rate Variability (HRV) coherence biofeedback training can counteract some of these effects. The 2025 Imaging Neuroscience paper, led by researchers at the University of Southern California and supported by NIH funding, found that daily practice with the emWave® Pro, developed by HeartMath to increase heart rhythm coherence, strengthens heart–brain communication and supports cognitive function across the lifespan.

Studying the Rhythms of the Body and Brain

The study examined younger and older adults to see how low-frequency heart rhythms and breathing patterns affect brain activity, as measured by functional MRI (fMRI). Over time, decreases in HRV and neurovascular coupling—how the brain adjusts its blood flow to meet activity demands—have been strongly linked to aging and cognitive decline. To address this, researchers introduced Heart Rate Variability Coherence Biofeedback (HRVC-BF), a practice designed to train participants to consciously increase the coherence and stability in their heart rhythms.

Training the Heart for Brain Resilience

Participants completed five weeks of HRVC-BF training using the emWave Pro coherence system, which provides real time feedback on heart rhythms, guiding users to find their personal “coherence frequency”—typically around six breaths per minute. Those trained to increase the stability of their coherence frequency in the heart rhythm oscillations showed brain activity patterns more like those of younger adults. Specifically, regions tied to emotional regulation and higher cognitive control—such as the anterior cingulate, insula, and orbitofrontal cortex—demonstrated improved synchronization with cardiac rhythms following training.

Coherence: A Bridge Between Heart and Brain

In essence, the study found that the emWave system helps bridge the conversation between heart and brain by restoring coherent physiological communication. This coherence—a harmonious alignment of heart rhythms and neural activity—not only enhances emotional resilience but also supports cerebral blood flow, contributing to clearer thinking and improved memory.

The Path to a Younger Brain

These newest results affirm what HeartMath’s decades of research have shown: Cultivating heart coherence through HRV coherence feedback fosters the physiological conditions for calm, focus, and brain longevity. As lead researcher Dr. Mara Mather notes, practices that strengthen heart rhythm coherence may do more than soothe stress—they might help the brain stay biologically younger, offering a promising, noninvasive path to lifelong cognitive health.

Song, R., Min, J., Wang, S., Mather, M., & Thayer, J. F. (2025). ”Age-related differences in physiological–BOLD coupling and the effects of heart rate variability biofeedback training”. Imaging Neuroscience, 3(1). https://doi.org/10.1162/imag_a_00097

The Quiet Power of Inner Ease

A softer way to stay steady when life feels overwhelming

By Gabriella Boehmer, HeartMath Director of Media Relations and Digital Strategy

Two Ways to Face a Crisis

There are two very different approaches in times of crisis.

One is the classic: muscle up, push through it, take the bull by the horns (and hope it doesn’t toss you). The other is softer and more balanced, like a horse standing still in a storm—aware, steady, and deeply attuned.

I’ve always admired people who carry themselves with a calm, quiet strength—even in the middle of intense challenges.

The Turning Point

A little over a year ago, I had to step up and manage back-to-back family crises.

In my opinion, these are some of life’s harder chapters: grieving the youngest member of my immediate family while also caring for an aging parent whose needs were increasing fast.

I knew I needed to find a different way to move through all of it—something that wouldn’t drain me mentally and emotionally. Something sustainable.

At First, It Felt Too Gentle

With no shortage of daily stressors, I decided to try a gentler approach—one that still honored what everyone needed, including me.

That’s when I decided to use the Inner Ease™ technique as a daily practice so that I could stay grounded and present.

Honestly, I wasn’t sure at first. I thought, Is this really enough for what I’m dealing with?

This was high-stakes stuff:

  • Daily calls to doctors and insurance companies
  • Coordinating in-home care and medical equipment
  • Being the emotional support for family members
  • Making sure my frail parent could visit my dying sibling

And all of it on top of a demanding full-time job.

Something Surprising Started Happening

There were plenty of moments when I felt stretched—like early morning calls from healthcare providers or having to spend my evenings figuring out what insurance might or might not cover (when all I really wanted was a quiet dinner with my husband).

But I noticed something.

I wasn’t emotionally unraveling.

I wasn’t walking around exhausted or overwhelmed.

I felt clear and focused.

I felt calm and centered.

Of course, I felt great sadness with my youngest sibling passing away, and I do feel the weight of concern for my frail and aging parent, but I can say that I’m not completely consumed by it all. There is space inside me where I feel connected with my heart, my care and compassion, and my intuition.

Growth, Not Perfection

What’s been most powerful for me is the change I feel—not just in the heat of a tough moment, but over time.

The more I lean into this practice, the more I notice a shift in myself. I’m growing. I’m learning how to show up with a strength that doesn’t need to push to effectively handle things.

When my thoughts veer toward worries or my emotions start to spike, I pause. I return to Inner Ease. I reconnect with that deeper steadiness—like the horse in the storm, present and aware.

Why I’m Sharing This

These days, I start my mornings with a few minutes in the Inner Ease state. Allowing enough time to settle into a sense of that steadiness, the clear calm before the day rushes in. I revisit it throughout the day—between meetings, emails, caregiving, or when I simply feel myself starting to drift into the old way of handling things. I like the new me that I’m experiencing—it is my incentive to keep it going.

If you’re moving through something big, I want you to know: This practice really can help.

Remember those people I’ve always admired—the ones who are composed through the chaos? I can honestly say that I’m now becoming what I have long admired in others—calm, steady, quiet strength.

Inner Ease brings me back to my heart—and that’s the steadiness I reach for when everything feels messy or uncertain.

If you’re curious about the Inner Ease™ technique and want to try it for yourself, you’ll find it in the HeartMath app.

Just download it from your app store, open the Learning tab, and tap on Guided Techniques to get started.

It’s simple, and honestly, it remains a steady companion for me. I hope it helps you in the moments you need it most.

About

Gabriella Boehmer brings a unique perspective to her role as Director of Media Relations and Digital Strategy at HeartMath, drawing on her early experiences as a Hollywood kid in national TV commercials, modeling, and commercial photography. Part of the core team at the inception of HeartMath, and fascinated by the art of communication, she finds deep inspiration in HeartMath’s mission to help people connect with their authentic selves and foster greater unity in the world—a purpose that truly resonates with her personal values and vision for a more connected humanity. When she’s not crafting stories or strategies, Gabriella enjoys exploring new creative outlets and spending time outdoors, appreciating the beauty of nature.

Finding Inner Balance in Today’s World

By Deborah Rozman, PhD

Today’s stress is different. The sped-up changes in the world and the swing shift in political and economic environments are creating ongoing uncertainty. People are finding that maintaining their inner balance through it all can be hard to do.

First of all, it’s not just you. This is affecting all of us. It’s critical to understand that stress today isn’t just an individual issue. It’s a public health crisis. How do we know this? Here are some stats:

  • 60 million U.S. adults (almost ¼ of the adult population) experienced mental illness in 2024.1
  • 77% say the future of our nation causes significant stress.2
  • 80% believe we’ve lost the ability to have civil disagreements.3
  • 40% of teens reported persistent feelings of sadness or hopelessness.4

In April 2025, there was a significant spike in Google searches on anxiety, as well as searches on how to reduce stress. Dr. Neha Chaudhary, an adolescent and adult psychiatrist, commented, “This isn’t just digital noise…It’s a population-level cry for help.” She went on to say, “I’m actually hearing from a lot of my own patients that they can’t remember the last time they were this stressed and unable to see an end in sight.”5 

The upside is that people are becoming increasingly aware of their mental health and are actively looking for ways to take control. When it comes to lowering our stress levels and maintaining inner balance, it’s important to realize what’s in our control and accept what’s not. The aspect we can best control is how we respond to and manage the emotions we experience. 

Researchers have long established that ongoing stress and worry about the future impair our cognitive functions, making it harder to focus, remember, or make sound decisions. The rapid pace of change, the barrage of news and information, along with personal or political disappointments, can leave us feeling lost or stuck in a mental fog. This can contribute to indecision, memory lapses, and a pervasive sense of mental and emotional fatigue. 

It isn’t just a fleeting issue for many of us—it affects our physical health, happiness, and quality of life. But there’s real hope. Our minds and hearts have remarkable capacities for flexibility and recovery. Finding and maintaining our inner balance is not just for weathering the stress storms—it’s how we can manage ourselves and thrive, even amid the chaos.

The Path to Inner Balance

Imagine being able to maintain your mental clarity and confidence despite the pressures of today’s world. It starts with learning to maintain or recoup inner balance as you move through the day. Not waiting until you can finally go somewhere to relax, exercise, meditate, or flop on the couch with a drink and watch TV. You can harness the power of your heart to find and sustain inner balance. There are simple heart-based techniques you can do in just a few minutes whenever you start to feel overloaded or mind-fogged.

Harnessing the Power of the Heart

A first step for increasing mental clarity and emotional stability is through a simple technique called Heart-Focused Breathing™. This is also the first step of most HeartMath techniques, as it helps balance the nervous system, which increases our effectiveness in managing reactive or scattered thoughts and feelings that drain our system. Instead, we quickly become more centered and at ease.

Here’s how to practice Heart-Focused Breathing

  • Focus on your heart: Place your attention on the area of your heart or the center of your chest.
  • Breathe deeply and slowly: Imagine your breath flowing in and out of your heart area. Find an easy rhythm that’s comfortable. Some people practice inhaling for 5 or 6 seconds and exhaling for the same amount of time. Do this for a few minutes and note how you feel.

Tips to reduce stress, anxiety, or overwhelm

  • Practice several times a day: Engage in Heart-Focused Breathing several times a day, especially when you feel frustration or anxiety rising. 
  • Ask yourself key questions: Once you feel more balanced, ask yourself, “Do I really want to expend my energy on this?” and “What if there’s more to the situation than I can see right now?” This helps you bring your nervous system to a more neutral state.
  • Engage a positive or uplifting feeling: While doing Heart-Focused Breathing, pretend you’re breathing in a feeling of calm, kindness, gratitude, or another positive attitude. Doing this helps to synchronize your heart and brain rhythms, which increases clarity and a sense of well-being.
  • Connect with your intuition: As you sincerely practice these HeartMath steps to clear your mind and regain balance, it helps you connect to your heart’s intuitive guidance. Listen for any inner direction that feels good to your heart.
  • Use the HeartMath app or the Inner Balance™ Coherence Plus sensor so you can watch your heart rhythm and coherence level change as you do these steps. With a little practice, you will learn to distinguish choices that come from your heart’s intuition, rather than choices that come from fear, anxiety, or desperation.

Note: If you still aren’t sure what to do, make a list of what’s bothering you and how you have been approaching it mentally and emotionally—then, do these HeartMath steps again and listen for your heart’s guidance. Or talk to a friend who cares, as this often activates helpful, intuitive suggestions.

Reclaim Your Balance: Try a 5-Minute Daily Practice

HeartMath techniques were specially designed for these times of personal and societal stress. By incorporating these simple, scientifically validated practices into your daily routine, you will increasingly reclaim inner balance and mental resilience. You’ll feel more in charge as you navigate today’s changing times. You’ll soon begin to notice a positive shift in your overall mental and emotional state and even your physical health. 

Some of the benefits include:

  • Reduced stress and anxiety
  • Improved sleep quality
  • Increased focus and concentration
  • Enhanced creativity and problem-solving skills
  • Greater emotional regulation
  • Quicker access to a state of calm for clear direction
  • Getting along better with others (the missing piece)

Embracing Change with Confidence

Life’s challenges are inevitable, but how we respond to them is within our management capacity as we learn how. Many of us have stress and anxiety overload, but we are not as trapped in it as we may think. Research has shown that each step we take toward nervous system balance and emotional regulation builds our confidence and contributes to a more empowered and fulfilling life. 

Remember, the best stress relief is the one you’ll actually do. Decide that you have had enough of responding the same old way, suffering from it, and then doing the same thing all over again. Try these heart tools for even a week and observe how they transform your approach to stress, anxiety, overwhelm, getting along better with others, and making more effective decisions. It’s not about perfection; it’s about progress. By sincerely dedicating just a few minutes each day to these simple practices, you can bring your best self to every aspect of your life. 


  1. Mental Health America’s 2024 State of Mental Health in America
  2. American Psychological Association’s (APA) 2024 Stress in America™
  3. Gallup poll conducted August 2023
  4. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s (CDC) 2023 Youth Risk Behavior Survey
  5. https://www.cnbc.com/2025/03/30/how-to-reduce-stress-things-that-actually-help-from-a-doctor.html

Unleashing Love

More and more people are being prompted from within that love, compassionate care, and kindness are what the world needs at this time. 

Here’s a simple and profound practice you can do every day to help bring more love into your heart and into the world. As we increase the love in our system, this activates our memory to use these heart practices in the moment when stress presents itself, rather than drain our energy and later remember we could have prevented that.

Find a comfortable place and settle in.

1. Breathe love and go to stillness in the heart. Breathe more slowly and deeply. On the in-breath, imagine breathing in divine love. On the out-breath, radiate love and gratitude through all your cells and out to the planet.

Doing this elevates your spirit and helps to bring your heart, mind, emotions, and body into coherent alignment and stillness. This creates an energetic conduit for intuitive guidance and love to move through your day-to-day interactions. (It also helps to do this step through the day to release static build-up from stress.)

2. Now, envision more people throughout the world helping to lift the baseline vibration of love in the planetary field by taking personal action steps to be more compassionate, caring, kind, and cooperative with each other in their homes, workplaces, and social interactions. This is love in action.

3. Next, see more of humanity finally moving from separation and fear by replacing blame with compassionate care and reducing fear to intelligent concern to access their heart’s higher intuitive guidance and direction.

It’s obvious that collective fear is not going to disappear overnight, but even making any progress in reducing fear strengthens the seemingly elusive connection with our intuitive direction and guidance.

4. Let’s close by radiating our collective love and compassion to all people suffering from wars, trauma, famine, natural disasters, and other major stressors. See the radiation of our collective heart energy helping lift the planetary energetic field—and especially the hearts of those suffering hardships.

Choosing Kindness

By Deborah Rozman, PhD

In a world of increasing separation, divisiveness, and stress, the need for kindness has never been greater. Kindness is a heart feeling that transcends distinctions of race, gender, education, religious or political preferences, and income. Kindness recognizes the inherent goodness in people and strives to bring it to light. Kindness is love in action—a powerful heart vibration that deepens our connections with each other.

Numerous research studies have shown many benefits from kind acts—for both the giver and the receiver of kindness. Studies reveal that kindness can be contagious, with those who receive kindness being more likely to be kinder and more generous as a result [1]. A World Kindness Day 2024 presentation reported that one act of kindness often led a recipient to extend five acts of kindness to others. Dr. Robin Banerjee, founder of the University of Sussex Center on Kindness Research, responded, “The point being made here is that an act of kindness can have a ripple effect, via the effects on those receiving the kindness and via the benefits to well-being for those giving the kindness, and even on those simply observing/noticing the kindness. Thus, it could even be a lot more than 5!!”

This is what movements such as “Pay It Forward” and “Random Acts of Kindness” envision to help people make kindness the norm during these transitional times. A December 2024 article in Optimist Daily titled “The large power of small acts of kindness: Science backs up how small acts of kindness can create global change” reported, “In a society fraught with political divisions, global crises, and seemingly insurmountable obstacles, it’s easy to believe that individual efforts are insignificant. However, research increasingly shows that tiny acts of compassion and connection can have far-reaching societal repercussions.”

Psychologists and researchers “have discovered that these tiny acts—whether a kind remark, a moment of understanding, or a gesture of solidarity—can promote empathy, dispel preconceptions, and even challenge large-scale social challenges such as discrimination.” [2] The article goes on to say, “The impact of these little acts extends beyond individual relationships, resulting in what psychologists refer to as an upward spiral of compassion—a positive feedback loop in which compassionate behaviors encourage social growth. Compassionate changes at any level—personal, interpersonal, or structural—can cause long-term alterations.” [3]

Mental and Physical Health Benefits of Kindness

Kindness studies over several decades demonstrated these benefits:

  • Less stress
  • Longer lifespan
  • Improved cardiovascular system
  • Increased energy
  • Improved immune system
  • Lower risk for depression
  • Stronger relationships
  • Better performance at work and school

Even witnessing acts of kindness on TV or social media has been shown to uplift mood, increase altruism, and promote connection to others [4]. In laboratory studies, viewers watching kindness media had increased levels of oxytocin (often called the ‘love hormone”), which promotes bonding and lowers blood pressure. Oxytocin also increases self-esteem and optimism while decreasing stress and emotional reactivity. Participants experienced a transcendent sense of being connected to others and became significantly more generous.

Simply watching kind and caring actions also induced prosocial behaviors that bolstered resilience. “Prosocial behavior” is a term sociologists use to describe acting kindly, cooperatively, and with compassion toward others. Another study found that an individual offering a single act of kindness each week reduced loneliness, social isolation, and social anxiety.

In other words, kindness is not just a nice thing to do. The economic cost of stress, burnout, loneliness, and incivility is enormous these days, costing billions of dollars annually. The need for simple acts of kindness is enormous.

So Why Isn’t There More Kindness in the World?  

We suggest one reason is because people have to choose kindness and choose to do something kind. The choice to be kind is an act of care from the heart, which activates the neurophysiological, hormonal, and social benefits.

Create, Don’t Wait

The saying “Create, Don’t Wait” means become the change you want to see. Don’t wait for something to change or wait for someone to be kind to you. Create being kind to others and enjoy the cascade of benefits that kindness brings. This is a key reason why practicing gratitude has become so popular in the past few years. Gratitude is a heart feeling that uplifts the spirit and reduces stress, along with providing similar health benefits as kindness. Many people suggest keeping a gratitude journal. Or before bed, think of 3 things you were grateful for that day. However, to experience the benefits, practicing gratitude has to be genuine. If gratitude becomes rote or mechanical, it can feel like a chore rather than something that engages the heart.

Empathy and Compassion

Empathy and compassion are heart feelings that receive the most attention in healthcare settings [5]. Empathy is resonating with another’s emotions. Compassion is deep care and understanding of what another may be experiencing. What’s most important is to increase the genuine heart feeling as we practice kindness, gratitude, empathy, or compassion. This makes the practice more authentic, which greatly increases its power and effectiveness, especially in highly stressful times.

While this article has focused primarily on choosing kindness, each heart quality, such as gratitude, compassion, care, patience, forgiveness, respect, etc., is a jewel in the heart that we can benefit from choosing to practice. They are all aspects of love. Starting with kindness often helps jump-start our practice of other heart qualities as we experience the intelligence of doing it.

Here’s an approach to practicing kindness that many people find helpful:

  1. Start by choosing 1 or 2 acts of kindness to give others each day. Make this genuine. It can be something simple, such as a smile, holding the door open for someone, a kind word, a kind question, offering a listening ear, etc. People often do these gestures, but they can become mechanical. Remember that to gain the maximum benefits from a kind deed, a genuine heart feeling needs to be present. That’s how the recipient feels the kindness.
  2. You can start by choosing 1 or 2 acts of kindness each day, but there’s nothing wrong with 3 or 4 or more. The number doesn’t make the difference. It’s our sincerity and genuineness that provide the greatest wholeness effect because it comes from who we truly are inside.
  3. Make up your own practices. Make it fun and not just a mental exercise. When you put your heart into it, ideas will come easily.

Practicing kindness, gratitude, compassion, connection, and other heart qualities can serve as the force that can support heart and love to go viral. The practice of heart qualities is what opens us to our heart’s intelligent guidance, which is so needed during these times. This will help us become the change we want to see and contribute to a ripple effect that can facilitate global transformation and well-being.  

[1]  https://www.psychiatry.org/news-room/apa-blogs/mental-health-benefits-simple-acts-of-kindness

[2] https://www.optimistdaily.com/2024/12/science-backs-up-how-small-acts-of-kindness-can-create-global-change/

[3] https://theconversation.com/an-upward-spiral-how-small-acts-of-kindness-and-connection-really-can-change-the-world-according-to-psychology-research-237426

[4] https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/psychology/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2020.591942/full

[5] https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10355430/

Empowering the Collective Heart

Change Is Happening — in Our Hearts

The effectiveness of collective heart power is in its early stages — yet it’s on the rise due to the rapid increase of stress and anxiety throughout the planet and a desperate need for solutions that the mind without the heart can’t deliver. 

Profound societal changes will continue to take place as our world becomes increasingly interconnected and interdependent. The changes we are experiencing now are creating a time-release momentum for humanity to open our hearts to kindness, compassionate care, forgiveness, cooperation, and fresh starts. 

For humanity to achieve its potential, people need to learn to get along together. The mind without the heart hasn’t been able to pull this off. We’ve tried that through the ages, and it hasn’t worked. We are running out of ways to find true happiness and peace without making peace with each other. Our hearts can help bring about a new respect for our personal and cultural differences — and this is a job for love that can’t be substituted.

Collective Heart in Action

Love is the action word for humanity’s next awareness level of our heart’s intelligence for living peacefully and co-creating together on the planet. More people are awakening to this, realizing we won’t be able to sidestep the importance of our heart’s care and its effective guidance. As more of us radiate love and compassion to each other and into the planetary energetic field, it makes it easier for people to connect with their heart’s guidance day to day, which helps to draw what’s best for the whole (and us included). 

“Warmheartedness is the secret sauce in connection.” — Doc Childre

The need for love has been philosophized for eons — now is the time for love to hit the street running. 

Practice Compassion

Empowering the collective heart starts with us. One of the most effective ways to strengthen our heart power is to take a couple of weeks and first practice compassion while being conscious of whether you are really feeling it or just passing over it. This helps to amplify your heart energy. Each day, practice compassion for others’ hardships while watching the news and elsewhere. Also, practice having more sincere kindness and patience with others, even if it’s hard at times. It’s time to trade compassionate latitude for harsh judgments that lead to separation. 

Pause Before Acting

Another practice that is so simple we forget to do it — but saves so much energy, frustration, awkward situations, and re-dos (e.g., emails we’d like to take back) is learning to pause before acting. This is one of the best energy savers and stress reducers we can practice. Taking a pause for even a moment or two allows us a chance to transition from reaction to thoughtful, heart-centered response. When we rush, we often jam the natural flow of our heart’s intuitive guidance. Practice pausing a few times during the day to let your heart’s direction for a clearer assessment come through. With practice, your heart will start to alert you when a pause is needed or when you should have paused and didn’t (ouch!).

Of course, there are more heart qualities you can apply to strengthen your heart power. Many of us have practiced these types of exercises in times past, but they can be especially effective now because of the pressures from increased stress across the planet. Stress and a growing fear in the world can lower our heart energy, making us feel less connected in our interactions, create sharp drops in our self-security, and leave us stuck in the viral brain fog that so many people are experiencing in today’s times.

The above exercises, when done with genuine heartfelt intention, serve to reboot our heart feelings of care for each other, lift our operational frequency, and reconnect us with our intuition for making the highest best choices for ourselves and for the collective.

Care Focus Meditation: Empowering the Collective Heart

  1. Sit quietly and breathe love consciously. On the in-breath, imagine breathing in divine love throughout your being. On the out-breath, radiate the feeling of gratitude. Doing this elevates your spirit and helps to bring your heart, mind, emotions, and body into coherent alignment and stillness. This creates an energetic conduit for the love and guidance from your larger self to integrate more easily into your day-to-day interactions.
  1. Now, let’s connect with all people who are radiating heart energy into the planetary energetic field. See this helping to empower the collective heart. Envision more people connecting with their heart’s guidance to replace judgments with compassion, express warm-hearted care to those they interact with, and make more heart-based decisions. 
  1. Make a commitment to pause more during the day to radiate love or appreciation into the environment wherever you are: in meetings, on the phone, at the dinner table, watching the news, shopping, driving to work, walking in nature, etc. Know that each time you do this, it helps increase your capacity to love and to connect with your intuitive guidance for smarter moves through life’s challenges. 
  1. Now, let’s close by radiating our collective love and compassion to people and nations on the planet suffering from wars, trauma, natural disasters, and other major stressors as your heart guides you. 

Patience: A Heart Quality for Managing Uncertainty and Staying Resilient

Most all of us have struggled with impatience from time to time, especially during these days of rapid change and uncertainty.

Patience supports our ability to manage our energies from a state of ease, especially when things don’t move to suit our mind’s pace. Constant change and uncertainty can amplify impatience, irritation, and frustration. These assumed small energy leaks often turn into blockbuster energy deficits over time if we don’t reset and transform them into patience, resilience, and flow.

Rushed, impatient energy diffuses our capacity for favorable outcomes. When we push energy, this cancels the experience of flow and creates hiccups in our intentions. It’s our mind that tends to rush energy; our heart chooses balance, rhythm, and flow. When cooperating together, they increase outcomes that facilitate any situation.  

Patience Creates Flow

Practicing patience and ease creates the energetic environment for flow to take place in our communications, choice selections, and actions. Traffic jams, slow computers, and communication difficulties won’t disappear because we practice patience. However, patience helps us attune our mental and emotional nature to operate at the highest level of energy economy as we sort our way through life’s interactions.

We all know that impatience is an invitation to frustration, shallow discernment, and faulty choices. When our hearts truly commit to becoming patient, then our minds will progressively surrender to this most beneficial change in our energy management. The reduced stress we will experience quickly turns into resilience, which is especially needed through these restrictive changes most of us are experiencing.

Patience Through Inner Ease

We often make high-spirited commitments for behavior changes and then our intentions fade because the lack of patience drains the energy from our commitment.

Our intuition constantly prompts us to be more patient, but most of us know that initiative can slip away all too easily. Once we realize how many mental and emotional setbacks and physical energy drains are caused from the lack of patience, we will probably commit like never before to install patience as one of our most important assets for navigating these times of high speed, unpredictable changes.

Exercise: Replacing Impatience with Patience

  1. Acknowledge your feelings as soon as you sense impatience, irritation, or frustration.
  2. Pause what you’re doing. From your genuine heart, imagine breathing in the feeling of inner ease. Imagine with each breath that you are drawing in feelings of patience and calm.
  3. Once you shift to an attitude of patience and regain your emotional poise, breathe this feeling for a while longer to help anchor it in. Continue this exercise for a few days and your intuition will start to automatically cue you up when impatience persists.

As we commit to replacing impatience with patience, inner ease, and flow, our life’s interactions will play out with more balance, resilience, and effective choice. This can prevent much of the energy drain, fatigue, and do-overs we experience along with bringing more peace and health benefits. Results come quickly if you put your heart into it.

Patience, resilience, and caring more for each other are especially essential now for the highest and best outcomes for ourselves and collective humanity.

This article contains excerpts from the book Heart Intelligence. Learn more about practices to increase patience and building personal coherence in the HeartMath App:

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Help Love Go Viral

By Doc Childre

It’s in the heart that people access the qualities of love, such as compassion, care, kindness, forgiveness, appreciation, etc., that lift us above separation, judgments, and blame. Through intentionally demonstrating these heart qualities in our lives, we connect with our heart’s natural intelligence and guidance for a unique opportunity to create a future together in harmony.

As collective consciousness increases, this will eventually reveal that love is an advanced mode of intelligent living. What I mean by love is simply more care, kindness, and cooperation in our interactions, along with less judgment, more compassion, and forgiveness. I feel it would be safe to say that one of love’s principal intentions is to help people get along with each other and heal separation, which unfolds the secret of thriving and experiencing less fear and more joy. 

The healing of separation is essential for a shift into the next level of intelligence for humanity — and many people are feeling that life’s events are shaking us awake to this requirement. These times are lit with positive opportunity, regardless of how they can appear throughout the world. Humanity is transitioning into a state of consciousness that will unleash the creative power of togetherness and the understanding that it’s our heart vibration that qualifies the difference between separation and feeling connected. 

Increased heart-connected interactions with each other will progressively raise the vibration of collective consciousness. As we realize we are all energetically connected, increasing our love and care for each other creates easier access to our true self’s assistance. This will set the stage for realizing that inclusive, unconditional love and compassion is the next advanced mode of intelligent living.

What We Can Do

My intention in my writings is to give a picture of how love includes practical and effective ways to heal separation and bitterness between people, which is driving the steady increase in intractable stress that humanity is experiencing. 

  • Learning to establish coherence between our mind, heart, and emotions expands our love, kindness, and compassionate care. 
  • Increasing the love flowing through our system is one of the best-kept secrets for connecting with our heart’s intuitive directions. 
  • Expanding our love and care for others helps activate and anchor our heart’s intuitive connection as a street-wise way of life, not just as a passing trend. 

Broadcasting Love

There are many individual and collective benefits from the practice of intentionally broadcasting or radiating love. Radiating love and compassion automatically brings more patience and deeper listening into our interactions. After we practice radiating love or compassion for a while, there’s an automatic tendency to precede interactions from a more loving spirit, resulting in less stress and more harmony in our relationships. Sending love in the form of compassionate care and respect also helps to soften the energetic field around us, making it easier for others to feel ease and a deeper resonant connection in their heart.

Exercise for Increasing Your Love Radiation

  • Sit quietly for a few minutes and breathe consciously. On the in-breath, imagine breathing in divine love throughout your being. On the out-breath, radiate the feeling of gratitude. 

Doing this lifts the vibration of your spirit and helps to bring heart, mind, emotions, and body into coherent alignment and stillness. This creates an energetic conduit for the love and guidance from your true self to integrate more easily into your day-to-day interactions. 

If you decide to try this, be patient while getting the feel of the process. Without patience, your mind will tend to expect too much too quickly, and you will likely give up disappointed.

Collective Heart in Action

The effectiveness of collective heart power is in its early stages — yet it’s on the rise due to the rapid increase of stress and a desperate need for solutions that the mind without the heart can’t deliver. The objective is for humanity to go for sustaining compassion and cooperation without needing stress to remind us. 

Profound societal changes will continue to take place as our world becomes increasingly interconnected and interdependent. For this to achieve its potential, we need to all learn to get along. The mind without the heart hasn’t been able to pull this off. The good news is the dynamic shift the collective is experiencing now is creating a time-release momentum for awakening humanity to collectively open our hearts and step our love down into kindness, compassionate care, forgiveness, cooperation, and fresh starts. 

Exercises to Expand Our Capacity to Love

  • Make a commitment to consciously broadcast or radiate love for a minute or two in between and during activities during the day or whenever you think of it. Realize that you are also radiating love when you’re feeling appreciation and kindness, resonance with nature, warm-hearted care for family, friends, pets, etc.
  • Practice breathing love into the environment wherever you are: shopping, on the phone, at the dinner table, watching the news, in meetings, while driving or walking to work. As you do this, know that it’s helping to increase your capacity for finding solutions to life’s challenges. 
  • Sit awhile in relaxed stillness and imagine breathing love into all your cells. This enhances your immune, hormonal, and nervous systems, which can help with self-healing. Remember that it’s already proven that love energy can effect positive changes in our biology. 
  • Practice radiating love into future meetings or interactions you are planning. This sets the tone for deeper listening from your heart and helps you maintain or recoup emotional poise if needed. 

Doing these exercises for a week or longer strengthens your inner stability while helping to prevent stressors that block clear thinking and higher choices. It takes a little repeated practice to remember to do them, but it’s way worth the time spent to anchor any of these practices into memory. Set up phone or note reminders. Some days, you won’t feel the heart as much. Heart feelings modulate at times, but that’s okay. It’s your sincere heart intention that increases your effectiveness so that radiating love and care becomes more automatic. 

These exercises are intended to inspire your own creative ways to expand your love and experience the transformational benefits that come with it. 

In Summary

Love is an action word for achieving our next awareness level of collective intelligence. We won’t be able to sidestep genuine love, care, and compassionate interaction. We’ve tried that through the ages, and it hasn’t worked. When we choose to be more caring, kind, and cooperative with each other for the good of the whole, we will create self-sustaining socioeconomic ecosystems that provide the opportunity for all to prosper.

The need for love has been philosophized for eons — now is the time for us to bring it to the street and practice more love and kindness in our interactions to reap the practical and proven benefits. We are running out of ways of trying to find happiness and peace without opening our hearts to getting along with each other. We need to find a new respect for our personal and cultural differences. This is a job for love that can’t be substituted.

We have a limitless supply of love within our heart, waiting to hit the street running. As more of us establish a coherent alignment between our mind and heart, along with expanding our love, kindness, and compassion, we will build the new baseline for creating the world as we want it to be. Compassion is transformational love and care manifesting in the most ripened state of effectiveness for the whole. 

It’s time to give love a chance — then peace will join us at the table for celebration.